I totally agree about porn, it's not evil per se but it does warp your reality if you've been consuming it for a long time. Also, in many parts of the world American style dating isn't as common. In Asia, and even in some European countries like Italy, one-on-one dates used to be pretty rare, people went out as a group, worked together, got to know each other through their circle of friends etc. so the kind of expectations / anxieties / insecurities men get on their first dates (when dating American-style) doesn't really apply everywhere.