Great article! I can relate, a bisexual guy I used to, for want of a better word, "do stuff with" online confessed that he was married but the shocker was that his wife (in his own words, "she's very open-minded") found out AND wanted in...basically she wanted to get involve and participate in our "sessions", even inviting me to visit them (this was pre-covid) in Texas the next time I went there. never got the chance to, but the thought did cross my mind more than once.